How do you ensure your prayer is acceptable to God?
In his book on prayer, Jacques Ellul makes the point that most people don’t pray because they don’t have their prayers answered. Or at least, not answered very often. In other words, if there are no results, then why do it?
In exploring the issue, perhaps our prayers remain unanswered because they are unacceptable to God. This should cause us to ask the question: What are the true conditions of acceptable prayer? This question was answered in a very specific way by Dr. A.A. Hodge in his book, Evangelical Theology: Lectures on Doctrine (no longer in print). These were a series of nineteen public lectures on basic Christian doctrine, published posthumously in 1890. Here was his answer to the question which he posed (pp. 89-90):
1. The person offering the prayer must be in a state of reconciliation to God through Christ. This does not mean that God never answers the prayers of the unregenerate person; but the promise can be claimed only by those who have accepted the conditions of salvation, and are loyal to their Christian engagements.
2. The prayer must be sincere, must express a real desire of the heart, and it must be offered and the answer sought only through the merits and intercession of Jesus Christ.
3. The prayer must be offered in absolute submission to the higher, broader, knowledge, wisdom, and righteousness of God. It must follow our Saviour’s “Not as I will, but as thou wilt.” The only objects for which we have any warrant to press unconditional petitions are (1) our own sanctification, (2) the bringing on of the triumph of Christ’s kingdom, because God has positively revealed both of these to be his “will”. The unconditioned, unsubmissive demand for any other benefit, in relation to which the will of God is yet unrevealed, is obviously presumptuous sin, a ground for offence, and not an acceptable prayer.
4. In order that the prayer shall be acceptable, the person praying must in every case intelligently and diligently use the means provided by God himself in the great framework of second causes and natural laws for the attainment of the end desired. If a man who prays for a crop neglects to sow the seed; or if a man who prays for learning neglects to study; or if a man who prays for the cure of disease neglects to take the appointed remedies; or if a man who prays for sanctification neglects to use the means of grace; or if a man who prays for the conversion of sinners neglects to work for it as far as his power or opportunity goes — then, in every case, he disobeys and insults God; his prayer is a mockery and an offence, and it can be answered only by rebuke and chastisement.
Means in relation to ends, and ends in dependence upon means, are as much an ordinance of God and as obligatory on us as prayer itself. If God shuts us up in a situation where no means are possible, we have a right to pray for what we want in the absence of all means; and God is perfectly able to give it to us without means, if it seems wisest and best to himself. But in every case in which means are available to us their use is commanded, and the poor fanatic who neglects them and petulantly cries for what he wants dishonors God, grieves rational Christians, and gives occasion to the devil and to his friends to triumph.
5. We must believe in the efficacy of prayer itself as a divinely-appointed means of attaining blessings. We must believe that we do and will obtain blessings by means of prayer which we would not attain without it.
There’s the challenge for acceptable prayer. In an age where his point #4 seems to be ignored, these comments are a timely reminder that acceptable prayer is an attainable goal.
Now, why is it that prayers are not being answered? Is it because those prayers are unacceptable to God?
God bless you.
“Means in relation to ends, and ends in dependence upon means, are as much an ordinance of God and as obligatory on us as prayer itself.” How many times we forget this nugget of wisdom (or is it mere commonsense?).
Another aspect we easily overlook is to be specific, which grows out of “real desire of the heart” – Hodge’s point 2. Are prayers asking God to “heal the sick” or to “bless the missionaries” etc., valid or are they sheer hypocrisy?